Robert “Bob” L. Mendenhall ’76

Robert L. Mendenhall of Davidson, NC died peacefully on Thursday, July 14, 2022, one day short of his 68th birthday, surrounded by family and friends. He was born and raised in Greensboro, NC, the third son of the late Margaret and Charles Mendenhall.
Bob graduated from Grimsley High School in 1972, and from Davidson College in 1976 with a degree in economics and great stories from being a Wildcat cheerleader. He spent several special summers in the 1970s as a swimming instructor and counselor at Camp Alleghany for Girls in the West Virginia mountains. After Davidson, Bob worked for NCNB as a field auditor in eastern North Carolina. He then earned his MBA and law degrees at UNC-Chapel Hill in 1983, where he was a member of the Law Review.
Bob had a distinguished career as a tax lawyer in Charlotte, practicing at Helms Mulliss & Johnston, Smith Helms Mulliss & Moore, Mayer Brown, and Holland & Knight. He was highly regarded by colleagues and clients not only for highly sophisticated legal work in the areas of tax credit transactions and non-profit organizations, but also for his servant leadership and unsurpassed collegiality. Bob was an important model for younger lawyers in his firms by leading innumerable pro bono practice efforts and projects. For more than 32 years, he served as pro bono general counsel of DreamKey Partners (formerly the Charlotte-Mecklenburg Housing Partnership), an organization committed to equity in housing to which he was deeply devoted.
The undisputed light and love of Bob’s life was his daughter, Lauren. He loved her deeply and made sure everyone knew it. Bob was devoted to his bonus children and grandchildren (who knew him as “Pop Pop”): Kristen Fresco (Charlie) and their children Jackson and Mikayla of Fayetteville, NC, and Matt Miller (Liz) and their children McKenna, Brayden and Lucas of Morehead City, NC, all of whom returned that devotion in full measure. Bob is also survived by his brothers, Chuck Mendenhall (Laura) of Austin, TX and Ray Mendenhall (Ann) of Versailles, KY and beloved nieces and nephews Maury Mendenhall (Andrew Miller), Matt Mendenhall (Marcy) and Sheena Roller (Ben) and their progeny. Bob was preceded in death by his nephew, Nathan Mendenhall (Shanna Dickens). Special cousins and lifelong friends to Bob were Ward Pritchett (Karen) of Charlotte and their children Sarah Branham (Drew) and Jack Pritchett (Letra Baehr), and Kay Motley (Dwight) of Mt. Holly, NC and their daughter, Leigh Pitman (Josh).
Bob appreciated Seagrove pottery, ran a marathon, gave enormous poinsettias at Christmas, was a tad messy, a dear uncle and godfather, and a great companion for his dog, Bo. The recent words of two dear Davidson friends are echoed by everyone who knew, and therefore loved, Bob Mendenhall: “he was the kindest, sweetest friend I ever had,” and “if the world had more people like him, it would be a better place.”
Bob’s family and friends are grateful to the team of skilled caregivers at the Atrium Main Cardiac ICU and the Sanger Clinic for their compassion and care in Bob’s last days.
A service celebrating Bob’s life will be held at 11:00 AM on Friday, August 5, 2022 in Lingle Chapel at Davidson College Presbyterian Church, with a reception immediately following in the Lilly Family Gallery in Chambers Building at Davidson College.
Memorials may be offered in Bob’s honor and memory to DreamKey Partners, 4601 Charlotte Park Drive, Suite 350, Charlotte NC 28217.
Arrangements are in the care of Kenneth W. Poe Funeral & Cremation Service, 1321 Berkeley Ave., Charlotte, NC 28204; (704) 641-7606. Online condolences may be shared at www.kennethpoeservices.com.

Larry Donnell Hardaway ’76

Larry Donnell Hardaway, age 67, was born March 7, 1954, in Winter Haven, Florida.

Larry Hardaway attended Winter Haven High School and graduated in 1972. At Winter Haven High School he played four sports; football, basketball, baseball and track. He was the first African American president of a senior class at Winter Haven High School and was named “best all around” as a senior notable. In 1971 he attended the Florida Boys State. He received several recognitions and was one of two nominated as governor of the state conference.

He accepted a football scholarship to study and play football at Davidson College in 1972. He was the third African American to ever play football for Davidson College. He graduated from Davidson in 1976 with a BA degree in Political Science. Larry Hardaway was awarded the James P. Hendrix Award by Davidson College. He was the first African American to receive that award.

In 1976, he attended the University of Florida Law School and graduated in 1979 with a JD degree.

He started his first job at the State Attorney’s Office in Bartow, Florida, in August of 1979, becoming an Assistant State Attorney.

In 1980, at the age of 26, he ran for the Polk County School Board though he lost this first attempt at public office.

In September of 1983, he left Polk County and began working for JESCA Legal Division in Miami, Florida. He eventually became managing attorney of that office where he represented public entities and businesses. At JESCA Legal, he provided legal services for the newly created Business Assistance Center assisting in the creation of small and minority businesses.

In 1984, he received the Dade County Bars Public Interest Law Bank Award for providing legal services to public entities and businesses. For the next three years he provided volunteer service to the City of Opa Locka receiving numerous awards for his service.

In 1988 he returned to Polk County working for the Public Defender’s Office and the State Attorney’s Office. He began private practice in 1992.

In 1994, he was appointed the Florida Elections Commission for a three year term by Governor Lawton Childs.

In 1996, he was an Adjunct Professor instructing business law for Warner Southern College, in Lake Wales, Florida.

In 1998, he was President of the Polk County Voters League.

In February of 2000, he received the Florida Bar’s Pro Bono Award for the 10th Judicial Circuit for providing pro bono services to his community.

In April of 2012, he received the Heman Sweatt Award from the National Bar Association.

In November of 2012, he received the James P Hendrix award from Davidson College.

In June 2013, he was inducted into the Polk County School’s Hall of Fame.

He practiced personal injury law and criminal law at the law firm of Larry D. Hardaway & Associates, P.A. in Lakeland, Florida.

He was married with three adult children, two grandsons and resided in Lakeland, Florida.

Former Activities:

• President of Polk County Voters League
• Volunteered as a poll watcher during elections
• Member and Past President of the Virgil Hawkins Bar Association
• Member of the Florida Bar Association
• Member of the Lakeland Bar Association
• Member of the Polk County Criminal Defense Lawyers
• Life Member of the NAACP
• Life Member of Florida A&M University Alumni
• Member of University of Florida Alumni
• Member of the Davidson College Alumni
• Member of Alpha Phi Alpha Fraternity, Inc., Mu Zeta Lambda chapter
• Member of First Missionary Baptist Church, Winter Haven, FL
• Member of League of Women Voters of Lakeland
• Member of Rose Heights Elk’s Lodge #318
• Member of Citrus Center Boys Club
• Member of Habitat for Humanity
• Member of Lakeland Downtown Kiwanis Club
• Board Member of Polk State College Foundation
• Member of Polk County Inns of Court
• Instructor and Judge for Polk County Teen Court

The Larry D. Hardaway Celebration of Life and Memorial Service for the public will be held on Friday, October 1, 2021 at 3:00 p.m. at Victory Church, 1401 Griffin Road, Lakeland, Florida 33810. Directions

In lieu of flowers, a memorial fund has been established with the GiveWell Community Foundation.
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Steven Griffin Patterson ’76

Steven Griffin Patterson, 66, of Orangeburg, SC, passed away June 18, 2021. A funeral service will be held at 11:00 am, June 25, 2021, at First Presbyterian Church of Orangeburg, with Dr. Daniel Massie officiating. Pallbearers will be his nieces and nephews. The family will greet friends at a reception following the service in the Presbyterian Centre.

Steve was the son of the late Grady Leslie Patterson, Jr, and Marjorie Faucett Patterson. He received a BS from Davidson College and an MD from Medical University of South Carolina.

After completing his residency at Eastern Virginia Graduate School of Medicine, he practiced diagnostic radiology in Orangeburg from 1984 until his health forced him to retire in 2017.

He is survived by his wife of 41 years, Katherine Callaway Patterson; daughters, Cally (Dave) Banks of Greenville and Anne Griffin (Thomas) Tafel of Columbia; grandsons, David Wood Banks III and Steven Griffin Banks; brother, Grady “Leck” (Sally) Patterson of Columbia; sisters, Lynne (Tommy) Trowbridge of Columbia, Laura (Johnny) Timmons of Columbia, Amy (Jerry) Shumpert of Aiken, and Beth (Will) Dryden of Columbia; brother-in-law ,Turner (Dackie) Callaway of Washington, Ga.; and sister-in-law, Laura (Ed) Hart Clayton, Ga..

Memorials may be made to the First Presbyterian Church of Orangeburg 536 Stanley Street, Orangeburg, SC 29115 or the Orangeburg/Calhoun Free Medical Clinic P.O. Box 505, Orangeburg, S.C.29116.

Online condolences may be expressed at www.dukesharleyfuneralhome.com.

Published by The State on Jun. 23, 2021.