William Franklin “Bill” Lee ’52

Reverend William (“Bill”) Franklin Lee, 95, died on February 10, 2026 in Tallahassee, Florida. He was born July 8, 1930 in Pensacola, Florida to Mary McLean Lee and William Franklin Lee, Sr. He graduated from Davidson College and Columbia Theological Seminary before beginning a long career as a Presbyterian minister. He was a resident of Westminster Oaks and an active member of Fellowship Presbyterian Church.

Bill loved people and was a committed husband, father, and friend. He was an avid reader and intellectual and a committed Christian. At the end of a long and successful life, perhaps it is most important to say that he was loved by many.

Bill was predeceased by his first wife, Patty Hamilton Lee, his brother, Stephen McLean Lee, his sister, Susan Jeanette Lee, and by his son, William Franklin Lee, IV. He is survived by his loving wife, Dottie Lee, his sister, Mary Witherspoon (Newell), his children, Beth Lee (Ed Stafman), Mary Jo Morelly (Dan), and Hugh Lee (Chelley Alexander) and his grandchildren, Laura Stafman, Logan Stafman (Rebecca Elyanow), Samantha Morelly (Max Welch), Nick Morelly, Ashley Alexander-Lee, Willow Alexander-Lee (Bella), Rachel Alexander-Lee, William Franklin Lee, V, and Michelle Su Lee, as well as many beloved nieces and nephews, and their children.

A memorial service will be held on Sunday, February 22, 2026 at 3 o’clock at Fellowship Presbyterian Church, 3158 Shamrock St. S., Tallahassee, Florida 32309 followed by a reception in the fellowship hall. Donations in Bill’s memory may be made to Fellowship Presbyterian Church.

William Henry Neal, Jr. ’52

William Henry Neal, Jr., an exemplary Christian gentleman known and loved as “Bill”, entered the Church Triumphant on January 17, 2026, after dying peacefully in his home at the Hermitage Richmond. He was born October 24, 1930, in Winston-Salem, N.C. to the late William Henry Neal and Jeannette Archer Neal, and was preceded in death by his son, James Strupe Neal (1976); his brother, James Archer Neal (2003); and his wife of 65 years, Mary Sue Strupe Neal (2018).

His family remembers Bill as a devoted and loving husband, father, father-in-law, grandfather, and great-grandfather, who traveled extensively (and played bridge obligingly) with Mary Sue, who went with his sons on nearly every Boy Scout camping trip, who taught anyone who would listen how to sail, to bait a crab trap, or to read maps and nautical charts, and who immediately welcomed new spouses-in-law as full members of the family.

Bill graduated from The McCallie School and Davidson College, then entered the U.S. Navy Reserve, reaching the rank of Lieutenant. After completing active duty, as the supply officer aboard USS POWER, he earned an MBA from The University of North Carolina.  Bill then moved with his wife and infant son to Richmond, Va., and began a 40-year career in banking that included positions in correspondent banking, local and national commercial lending, international finance, and executive management.

A descendant of early Mecklenburg County settlers, Bill was proud to represent Revolutionary War Era Capt. Henry Neel, 1st Regiment, N.C. Continental Line, in the Society of the Cincinnati. He was active in Richmond civic affairs including, among others, board chair of the Greater Richmond Transit Company, president of the Richmond Community Reinvestment Corporation, and a Hixson Fellow of the Kiwanis Club of Richmond.

As important as career and public service were to Bill, his faith was even more important. At age 30 he was ordained an Elder in the Presbyterian Church and, for 23 of the next 46 years, Bill served on the sessions of Westminster and First Presbyterian Churches. At those churches and at the Presbytery level he served on a number of important committees and commissions, chairing many of them. He was a commissioner to the 2001 General Assembly and was the moderator of the Committee On General Assembly Operations.

In 2020, on Bill’s 90th birthday, First Presbyterian recognized his extraordinary service to God and God’s church by establishing, with the generous financial support of his many friends, the William Henry Neal, Jr. Endowment Fund for church officer training.

Bill is survived by his son, William Henry Neal III (Holley Bell), currently of Lynchburg, Va.; four grandchildren, Katharine Neal Connelly (Patrick), James Graham Neal (Allison), William Carter Neal (Stephanie), and Patrick Caldwell Neal (Whitney); and ten great-grandchildren, Joel, Sam, and Ben Connelly, and Lucy, Nora, Adalyn, Violet, Boyd, Maysie, and Mabel Neal.

A memorial service will be held 2 p.m. Tuesday, February 17, 2026 at First Presbyterian Church with a reception to follow in the Fellowship Hall . Those wishing to make a contribution in Bill’s memory are asked to please consider a gift to First Presbyterian Church (memo: The William H. Neal Jr. Endowment Fund), 4602 Cary Street Rd., Richmond, Va. 23226.

Charles Ives Bryan ’52

Charles Ives Bryan died on October 28, 2025 at the age of 95. Charles was born in New Bern, North Carolina, to William Moore Bryan and Laura Ives Bryan. He attended New Bern public schools until 1948 when he entered Staunton Military Academy in Virginia for his senior year. Charles studied business at Davidson College and graduated in 1952, during the Korean War. At Davidson he was a member of the Army ROTC program, which provided him with a commission as a Second Lieutenant upon graduation.

As a result of the ongoing war, Charles was called into active duty for two years. He served at Fort Jackson in Columbia, South Carolina, an infantry training post that played an important role for war preparation. Charles was assigned to a training company, then a headquarters company, and then, by far his favorite assignment of all, the Commanding Officer of a small Army band, which aligned with his lifelong love of music. After his honorable discharge from active duty in 1954, Charles served six years as an officer in the U.S. Army Reserve.

After active duty, Charles attended Harvard Business School and then began work for his father’s business, Carolina Rubber and Supply Company in New Bern, which sold industrial and marine supplies to the industries in eastern North Carolina and fishing businesses on the coast. In 1961 he had the good fortune of a blind date with Louise Moore of Kinston for a dance at the Coral Bay Club in Atlantic Beach. Romance quickly followed, and on June 9, 1962, Charlie and Lou were wed. Shortly after their marriage, they moved to Raleigh where Charlie had accepted a position in the State Department of Cultural Resources. At the same time, Lou joined the Family Services Agency as a marriage counselor. In the fall of 1963, Charlie moved to the State Budget Office, which later became part of the Governor’s Office. He remained there for the balance of his career, retiring as a Budget Administrator in 1990. He was awarded The Order of the Long Leaf Pine for his many years of dedicated service to the state of North Carolina.

Retirement was a joy for Charlie and Lou. They had a wonderful life together filled with countless adventures. They enjoyed spending time in Raleigh with their son, Bill, and his family, and they made many trips to Louisville and then Oshkosh to visit their daughter, Laura, and her family. They especially enjoyed times spent with their three grandchildren, William Bryan and Hannah and Zoe Fiser, who lovingly called their grandfather “PopPop.”

Charlie’s life was marked by boundless curiosity and an insatiable desire for exploration. Spending time in nature and the great outdoors meant so much to Charlie and Lou. They loved setting out on road trips for weeks at a time to take in the natural beauty of the United States and Canada. They particularly enjoyed National Wildlife Refuges for hiking and birdwatching, one of their favorite hobbies. With amazing compatibility as travel companions, they toured the U.S. together without reservations and no set plans as to where they may end up that night or the next. They proudly proclaimed, “We’ve never had to sleep in the car!”

Charlie and Lou also traveled extensively abroad, always learning and gaining appreciation for other cultures. They particularly enjoyed trips to Europe, the Galapagos Islands and Ecuador, Australia, New Zealand, Costa Rica, Egypt, Israel, countries in southern Africa, and several extended trips to the British Isles to visit historic sites and gardens. When overseas Charlie took great pleasure in navigating the challenges of driving on the wrong side of the road, “luckily without incident” he was quick to point out.

Charlie and Lou felt so fortunate to live in North Carolina, where they spent many wonderful times at their mountain home near Blowing Rock and at Lou’s family cottage on the Intracoastal Waterway near Swansboro. In Raleigh they cherished their many close friendships and the city’s cultural activities, particularly visiting the North Carolina Museum of Art and attending North Carolina Symphony concerts. For many years Charlie served as the Treasurer of the Botanical Garden Foundation of UNC in Chapel Hill. At home he avidly pursued many interests including reading, listening to classical music on WCPE, feeding the birds and meticulously documenting the many species who visited their backyard, researching family genealogy, developing extensive files pertaining to every interest imaginable, and taking long drives to investigate the latest developments in and around Raleigh.

Charles was predeceased by his parents and his best friend and loving wife of 59 years, Louise. Charles is survived by his son, William Moore Bryan II, daughter-in-law, Andrea, and grandson, William Moore Bryan III, of Raleigh; and his daughter, Laura (Bryan) Fiser, son-in-law, Daniel Fiser, and granddaughters, Hannah Ives and Zoe Elise Fiser, of Oshkosh, Wisconsin. He is also survived by numerous cousins who greatly enriched his life over the decades.

A memorial service will be held on Tuesday, November 11 at 2:00pm at White Memorial Presbyterian Church in Raleigh. The family will receive friends after the service in the Jane Bell Gathering Place behind the sanctuary. A burial service will take place on Wednesday, November 12 at 11:00am in New Bern at the family plot at Cedar Grove Cemetery.

Charles’s family would like to thank the staff of Perpetual Healthcare, UNC Rex Hospital, Hillcrest Raleigh of Crabtree Valley, and Transitions LifeCare for their compassionate care and support of PopPop over the past few months.

In lieu of flowers, donations may be made in Charles’s memory to the V Foundation for Cancer Research or the North Carolina Symphony.

Robert “Bob” Erwin ’52

Robert “Bob” Erwin, 94, of Morganton, NC, passed away on Thursday, March 6, 2025. He was born on July 19, 1930, in Catawba County to the late Robert Erwin and Elizabeth Abernathy Erwin. Bob graduated in 1952 from Davidson College. Bob was a veteran of the United States Army. After he was discharged from the Army, he worked for Commercial Credit for one year and then joined his father-in-law’s poultry business. Shortly after joining the business, Bob became President of B and L Feed, which made the feed and grew the chickens for Breeden poultry to process. Bob served as President and board member of several state and national feed and poultry organizations. In August, 2001, Bob was inducted into the North Carolina Poultry Hall of Fame.

Bob served in the local Methodist church in leadership positions for many decades. He served on the building team that went to Mexico to help build a small church. He also served as a trustee of the Methodist’s Children Home and was on the board of Givens Estate Methodist Retirement Home. Bob served as an officer and board member of Grace Hospital in Morganton as well as the History Museum of Burke County. Bob received a Distinguished Alumni Award from Davidson College. Bob enjoyed fly fishing, tennis, skiing, hiking in the mountains and travel. He also enjoyed reading history.

On June 6, 1954, Bob and Sis Breeden were married at the First United Methodist Church in Morganton. In 1988, B and L Feed and related businesses were sold to Case Farms. Bob continued to work as a consultant for Case Farms. Since 1988, Bob was able to fulfill a lifelong ambition to travel extensively. Bob took many trips to interesting places around the world with Sis and later with Alice. In May 1999, a dream came true and Bob had the opportunity of hiking and camping in the area around Mt. Everest.

In addition to his parents, Bob was preceded in death by his first wife, Sara Breeden “Sis” Erwin; son, Charles B. Erwin, Sr.; grandson, Charles B. “Chaz” Erwin, Jr.; brother, David Erwin; sister; Martha Erwin Fox.

Bob is survived by his wife, Alice Glisson Sasser-Erwin; son, John R. Erwin (Judy); grandchildren, Caitlyn Erwin, Jennifer Erwin, Cecelia Erwin, Robert David Erwin and Sara Anne Erwin; great-grandchildren, Chloe Charlie Erwin and Aries Trimble; daughter-in-law, Dabney Erwin (Judge Mark Klass); step-daughter, Cindi Nicholson (Stuart); stepgrandchildren, Kristen Brevoort (Brett), Liam Brevoort, Henry Brevoort, and Jack Brevoort; brother, Sam Erwin (Barbara): nephew, Mathew Erwin (Beverly); niece, Anna Erwin (Micah).

The family will receive friends from 4 to 6 p.m. on Friday, March 14, 2025, at Sossoman Funeral Home. The memorial service will begin at 11 a.m. on Saturday, March 15, 2025. at First United Methodist Church with Rev. Dan Hester officiating. The family will have a private inurnment.

Carl Thomas Holmes ’52

Carl Thomas Holmes, affectionately known as Tom or Tommy, passed away on 03/21/2024 in his home at Holden Beach, NC at the age of 96.

Tommy Holmes was born Nov. 5, 1927, in the Sedberry-Holmes house in downtown Fayetteville, the baby of seven children of the late James Azor Holmes Sr. and Mable Martin Holmes.

Tom lived a life marked by his love of family, friends, and lots of laughter. After graduating with a BS in Business Administration from Davidson College, Carl Thomas Holmes dedicated four years of service to the United States Air Force from 1952 to 1956, attaining the rank of S/Sgt. He later utilized his talents and skills in his professional career with the State of North Carolina, working as a tax auditor, contributing to public service and the community.

He leaves behind a legacy of love and strength, survived by his former wife, Cornelia Holmes, his two children, Mary Holmes Basnight (spouse to Matt Basnight) and Carl Thomas Holmes Jr. (known as T or Thomas), and his cherished grandchildren Ariel, Hunter, and Dylan Basnight. In addition to his immediate family, Tommy is survived by nieces and nephews, Martha, Dell, Dorothy, Trip, Boyd, Scott, Alex, and their families, whom he held dear.

Tommy was an active member of First Presbyterian Church until his retirement, when he moved to Holden Beach. Tom’s vibrant spirit was reflected in his love for travel, particularly to the beautiful lands of Ireland and Scotland. He relished social gatherings and spent his retirement days surrounded by friends at Holden Beach, sharing stories and laughter over “a drink or two”. A man of dedication, integrity, and infectious laughter, Tom touched the lives of many. He will be remembered for his zest for life and his ability to find joy in every moment. In honoring his memory, let us celebrate the remarkable life of Carl Thomas Holmes—a loving father, devoted friend, and an individual whose laughter echoed long after it faded away.

A memorial service will be held on Friday, April 12, 2024 at 11 am at Holden Beach Chapel, 107 Rothschild Street, Holden Beach, NC 28462

Please consider a donation in Carl’s name to the Holden Beach Chapel.